Community Lessons
Practical wisdom for living decently in a complicated world.
The Church of Common Sense exists for one simple reason: most of the damage in the world is done by people who feel justified, not by people who feel evil.
These lessons are not about belief. They are about behavior. Take what is useful. Leave the rest.
How These Lessons Work
- A clear principle
- A common failure mode
- A simple practice to try this week
- An optional reflection
- A related hymn from the Book of Common Sense
No quizzes. No grades. No certifications.
COM 101A
How Not to Be a Dick
The baseline virtue: decency.
Decency is not weakness. It is discipline.
6 min | Hymn I - How Not to Be a Dick
The Other Guy's Story Isn't Yours
Respect the unseen context.
You rarely know what someone has survived.
7 min | Hymn II - The Other Guy's Story Ain't Yours
No One's the Smartest Ape in the Room
Humility is the light of reason.
Your brain is impressive and a narrative machine with bugs.
6 min | Hymn III - No One's the Smartest Ape in the Room
Ask Twice, Judge Once
Curiosity before condemnation.
Most conflict is caused by misunderstanding.
6 min | Hymn IV - Ask Twice, Judge Once
Being Right Isn't the Same as Being Good
Truth without care becomes a weapon.
Accuracy matters. So does how you carry it.
7 min
The Pause Before You React
A tiny delay prevents huge regret.
Speed is the enemy of decency.
5 min
A Quiet Note
Those who wish to represent the Church publicly or perform civil ceremonies will complete additional training.
Details will be shared when appropriate.